🎯 Quick Overview
Trailer
- Director: Leslye Headland
- Genre: Comedy, Drama, Romance
- Release year: 2015
- Runtime (length): 1h 41min
- IMDb rating: 6.5/10 (104K votes)
- Rotten Tomatoes: 64%
😅 Plot Summary – Badly Explained
Two sex addicts try to be friends but spoiler alert, they end up falling in love, because that’s how rom-coms work!
🍿 Sleeping with Other People: Detailed Plot Synopsis
College Hookup
The film opens in 2002, introducing Lainey and Jake as college students. Lainey is determined to lose her virginity to her TA, but Jake intervenes, deeming the TA boring. They end up losing their virginities to each other, forming an initial connection that sets the stage for their future.

Reunion at Sex Addicts Anonymous
Years later, Lainey and Jake reconnect at a Sex Addicts Anonymous meeting. Lainey is a serial cheater, unable to break free from her obsession with her college boyfriend, Matt. Jake is a commitment-phobe, womanizing and avoiding serious relationships. They decide to be platonic friends, setting a ‘safe word’ to avoid crossing the line.

Navigating Platonic Friendship
As they navigate their platonic friendship, Lainey leans on Jake to vent about Matt, while Jake seeks her advice on understanding women. They become each other’s confidantes, blurring the lines of friendship as they grow closer. Others mistake them for a couple, further complicating their dynamic.

Growing Feelings and Complications
Despite their efforts to remain platonic, Jake and Lainey develop feelings for each other. Lainey decides to pursue medical school in Michigan, while Jake starts dating his boss, Paula. Their growing feelings and the prospect of distance test the boundaries of their friendship.

⚠️ Spoilers and Ending Explained
🎬 Cast & Characters
- Jake (Jason Sudeikis): A commitment-phobic womanizer who forms a platonic relationship with Lainey while harboring deeper feelings.
- Lainey (Alison Brie): A serial cheater struggling with her obsession with an old flame, who seeks a platonic friendship with Jake.
- Matthew (Adam Scott): Lainey’s longtime obsession and a married gynecologist, who represents her inability to move on.
- Paula (Amanda Peet): Jake’s boss and briefly his romantic interest, serving as a catalyst for his self-reflection.
- Xander (Jason Mantzoukas): Jake’s business partner and friend, offering comedic relief and a more stable relationship perspective.
💬 Memorable Quotes
- Jake: “I love you for free, Lainey.” – Expressing his unconditional love and acceptance of Lainey as she is.
- Lainey: “I love you for free, Jake.” – Responding to Jake, indicating her reciprocal feelings and acceptance.
- Jake: “Pretend this empty bottle of green tea is your vagina.” – Delivering a line to Lainey to help her understand and explore her sexuality in a comedic way.
💰Box Office
- Budget: $1,000,000
- Domestic Gross: $819,431
- Worldwide Gross: $3,224,947
💥 Sleeping with Other People Reviews
Personal Review
I really enjoyed the movie. It’s a refreshing take on the classic rom-com formula, with flawed but relatable characters. The chemistry between Alison Brie and Jason Sudeikis is undeniable, and it made the whole experience much more engaging. There were moments that made me laugh out loud, and others that were surprisingly touching. I loved how the movie explored the complexities of modern relationships and the challenges of overcoming personal demons. I also liked Adam Scott playing the heavy.
- Who would enjoy:
- “Fans of unconventional romantic comedies”
- “Viewers interested in films exploring modern relationships and commitment issues”
- “Those who enjoy Jason Sudeikis and Alison Brie’s performances”
- Content warnings ⚠:
- “Explicit language and sexual content”
- “Discussions of infidelity and sex addiction”
- “Mature themes”
Professional Reviews
- Showbiz Junkies: “The film has two delightful performers that I would’ve never thought have been so charismatic and fun together. The performers in question are Alison Brie and Jason Sudeikis, both proved assets to nearly every film they are in. The two make Sleeping with Other People a delightful romantic comedy.
- N/A: “With this movie we get crude sexual discussions between two people who are each such a mess that we don’t really care if they get together in the end or not.
- N/A: “Alison seems a bit ditzy throughout the film. After a few small roles she starred in 38 episodes of Mad Men but I personally don’t remember her in any of those films. She’s yet to become a household name but at 33 years old, she still has a chance to crack Hollywood.
Audience Reactions
The witty dialogue and the chemistry between the lead actors made this movie shine.: Viewers appreciated the fresh take on the rom-com genre and the realistic portrayal of relationships.
Overall Consensus: Sleeping with Other People is a refreshing and funny take on the rom-com genre. Viewers appreciate the real characters and modern relationships.
Awards
🛠️ Behind the Scenes
- “Director Leslye Headland wrote the sex scene in the script to be incredibly graphic but included a disclaimer stating there would be no nudity to avoid scaring off actors.”
- “Alison Brie and Adam Scott signed on to play their roles because of the way the sex scene was written, as they found it important to the characters.”
- “The film explores modern relationships and commitment issues with witty dialogue and relatable characters.”
🖥️ How to Watch Sleeping with Other People?
As of October 2024, ‘Sleeping with Other People’ is available to rent or purchase on various digital platforms, including Prime Video, Apple TV, Google Play Movies, and Vudu. Check your preferred streaming service for current availability and pricing.

🎥 Similar Movies
If you enjoyed Sleeping with Other People, you might like these similar films:
- When Harry Met Sally… (1989): Explores the question of whether men and women can truly be friends without romantic feelings getting in the way.
- Friends with Benefits (2011): Two friends try to have a purely physical relationship, but find themselves falling for each other.
- No Strings Attached (2011): Similar to ‘Friends with Benefits’, exploring a casual, no-commitment relationship that evolves into something more.
- Trainwreck (2015): Features a woman with commitment issues who re-evaluates her life when she meets someone who challenges her perspectives.
🛒 Sleeping with Other People Related Products
- Sleeping with Other People [Blu-ray]: Own the Blu-ray to relive the witty and heartwarming moments between Jake and Lainey. Enjoy bonus features and behind-the-scenes content.
- Sleeping with Other People Movie Poster: A stylish poster featuring Alison Brie and Jason Sudeikis. Perfect for decorating any movie lover’s room.
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🎧 Soundtrack
Sleeping with Other People features a captivating soundtrack that enhances the movie’s atmosphere and emotional impact. Here are some notable tracks:
You can find the complete soundtrack on Amazon Music and Apple Music.
🤨 FAQ
No, ‘Sleeping with Other People’ is a work of fiction, though it explores themes of modern relationships and commitment issues that many viewers can relate to.
Yes, it is categorized as a romantic comedy, although it delves into more mature and explicit themes compared to traditional rom-coms.
The movie was filmed primarily in New York City, adding an authentic backdrop to the story’s urban setting.
🔥 Bonus Content
‘Sleeping With Other People’ Stars Jason Mantzoukas and Andrea Savage on Losing Their Virginities
Ever wonder what it was like for Jason Mantzoukas and Andrea Savage to film ‘Sleeping With Other People’? This short interview gives you the inside scoop on their experiences. You won’t believe what they reveal!
Alison Brie on Embracing “Sleeping With Other People” | Sundance 2015 Interview
Alison Brie gets real about her first sex scenes in this interview from Sundance! I found it super interesting to hear her perspective on the film’s themes and her own comfort level with the material. Check it out!
10 Steamiest R-Rated Movies to Stream on Amazon Prime Video
Looking for more movies like ‘Sleeping With Other People’? This video lists the Top 10 Sexiest Movies on Amazon Prime, and our movie made the cut! I always love seeing if my fave movie makes these lists, you should too!
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